From Mum Mode to Mischief: A Date Night to Remember

Life is busy with business and two wonderful, crazy kids (who have their own hectic schedule of school, sports, hobbies, and friendships to juggle). And let's not forget the two nutbag French Bulldogs! Finding time to connect as a couple on a deeper level can be a challenge when so much of life revolves around being a mum and a boss. Most nights, I fall into bed exhausted, and intimacy is often the last thing on my mind. If I’m honest, this doesn’t always align with how my husband feels, which makes it an area that could use "some improvement".

We often fantasise about creating space just for us, where the daily chaos fades away and intimacy and personal connection take centre stage. We talk about it a lot, but usually, that’s where it ends. Then, a few months ago, I stumbled across a comedy show that I knew we’d both love. Without overthinking, I booked the tickets and moved on with life. Fast forward to a week before the show, and an email reminder popped up. Cue the scramble to organise our support crew—a mix of wonderful family who could handle the kids and dogs while we stole a few precious hours together.

As we pieced together the practicalities, something unexpected happened. We started flirting. Sexy innuendos slipped into our everyday chats, and the excitement of finally getting some alone time bubbled over. The cheeky side of our relationship re-emerged, and we started planning more than just a night at a comedy show. Why not make the most of it? Why not enjoy a bit of fun without worrying about little knocks on the bedroom door at the worst possible moment?

The lead-up to the night felt thrilling, almost rebellious—a secret just for us. It was like being teenagers sneaking around behind our parents’ backs. I even cleared out the car, removing the usual school and sports clutter. As we grabbed our essentials—lippy, wallet, handbag, keys—we made sure to bring along a bottle of FIGR, our trusty lube sidekick, because this night had adventure written all over it. (https://www.frenshykitten.com.au/category/lubricant)

The show was a blast—a sell-out crowd, endless laughs. We found a charming spot for dinner and, for once, managed to keep the conversation mostly away from kids and work (go us!). The anticipation for what was coming next only made everything more exciting. Over dinner, we brainstormed the perfect parking spot—secluded but not suspicious, with just the right amount of lighting for a little after-hours fun.

Let’s just say, we didn’t linger at the restaurant. The moment we pulled up in our chosen spot, we jumped into the backseat with the kind of excitement new couples have in their honeymoon phase. And honestly? It was the most fun we’d had in ages. We felt connected in a way that only comes from breaking routine and doing something a little bit cheeky.

When we got home, the kids (of course) were still up, eager to hear about our night. We happily shared the PG parts, basking in the afterglow of an adventure well worth taking. In the days that followed, everything felt different—lighter, more connected, more in sync. It was a reminder that intimacy and connection don’t have to fade with time. With a little planning, the right support system, and an open mind about where and how connection happens, it’s always possible to reignite the spark.

Sometimes, all it takes is a bit of spontaneity and a backseat rendezvous to remember just how much fun you can have together.

Love, MJ xx