Spilling the Tea: Women, Porn, and Pleasure

Alright, let’s have some real talk, ladies: we’re in a time where women and porn are finally starting to go hand-in-hand without all the hush-hush. But here’s the question—what are we actually watching? And are we telling anyone? Let's dive into the fun, fabulous, and slightly cheeky side of women and porn.

So, What Are We Watching?

Let’s start with what’s on the screen. Are we just browsing the classic videos? Not exactly! Loads of us are diving into steamy online stories and interactive fantasies. From spicy fan fiction that lets us imagine favourite characters in entirely new scenarios, to modern erotica that’s both relatable and incredibly hot, there’s something out there to spark anyone’s imagination. These stories give us that private escape without needing to follow any set script.

When it comes to videos, variety is the spice of life! Some women love a more sensual, romantic vibe, while others enjoy traditional “male” hardcore scenes. After all, sometimes the thrill lies in seeing raw, intense moments. It’s all about tapping into what makes us feel powerful, turned on, and in control of our pleasure journey. Bottom line? We’re sampling the full menu, from soft to spicy and everything in between!

When’s the Right Time?

Here’s the fun part—pretty much whenever! Maybe it’s a cheeky morning session with coffee, or a late-night wind-down when the world’s quiet. For some of us, it’s about setting the vibe: dimmed lights, candles, and some music to really get in the zone. Then, there are those moments we’re on the clock—a quick ten-minute escape to lift the mood for the day ahead. Who says you need hours?

Is It a Secret?

Here’s the question everyone’s too polite to ask: Are we telling our partners, or is this our little secret? For some, it’s a shared experience. A lot of partners are curious about what their other half finds sexy, and it can actually bring you closer, especially if you’re up for exploring a little together.

For others, it’s private—tucked away like a sparkly little secret. Why? Sometimes there’s still that old-school taboo about women and porn, like we’re not “meant” to enjoy it (pfft). And sometimes, it’s just our own bit of luxury—a slice of “me time” that no one else needs to know about.

Adding a Little Extra: Toys!

Toys and porn? Match made in heaven! Lots of us love adding toys to the experience for an extra thrill. Whether it’s a trusty favourite or the latest vibe, toys help dial up the pleasure exactly how you like it. Think of it as adding accessories to an already glam outfit.

Shaking Off the Stereotypes

Look, the world’s full of outdated ideas, but here we are: women owning their sexuality, exploring what turns them on, and having fun with it! Watching porn, reading steamy stories, and even trying out toys aren’t just indulgences—they’re part of owning our pleasure. And guess what? There’s no “right” way to enjoy it. Keep it a secret, share it with your partner, go all out, or keep it simple. You do you!

So, here’s to exploring it all! Whether you’ve got a cheeky ten minutes or an hour to unwind, it’s all about what feels right and makes you feel fabulous. Cheers to you and your pleasure journey, whatever that looks like!

With Love, MJ xx